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The Dangers of Overcourteousness: Recognizing and Avoiding Insincere Behavior

Overcourteousness is a term used to describe behavior that is excessively polite or deferential, often to the point of being insincere or manipulative. It can involve going out of one's way to please others, even if it means sacrificing one's own needs or desires.

Here are some examples of overcourteousness:

1. Constantly agreeing with others, even if you don't really believe what they are saying.
2. Offering to do things for others that you don't have the time or resources to do.
3. Going out of your way to avoid conflict or confrontation, even if it means neglecting your own needs.
4. Using excessive flattery or praise to gain favor or approval.
5. Being overly apologetic or self-deprecating, even when it's not necessary or deserved.

Overcourteousness can be seen as a form of social anxiety or insecurity, where the person is trying to avoid conflict or rejection by being overly accommodating and deferential. It can also be a way of manipulating others into doing what you want, by using excessive flattery or praise to gain their favor.

It's important to note that being polite and considerate of others is not necessarily a bad thing, but when it becomes excessive or insincere, it can be seen as overcourteousness. It's important to find a balance between being polite and being true to yourself and your own needs.

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